September 11, 2004
The third anniversary of the terror attacks on the United States.
It is sometimes difficult to track the passage of time, but with something
like this day to measure it against, it is surprising to see how quickly it can
pass us by.
They say that time heals all wounds, but in the case of the
attacks of 9.11.01, it is not certain that any amount of time
can ever completely heal the pain felt not only by those who
lost loved ones, but by this nation as a whole.

In the weeks following September 11th of 2001, there was
an intense unity among Americans, who stood together
in defiance of the motives of the evil minds
who perpetuated these horrendous acts. We weren't going to
allow them to defeat the American Spirit of freedom, and we
stood as one.

We seem to have lost some of our national unity, our
single-minded patriotism, our sense of community. Time
does allow life to go on for those who survive, but I hope
that our country never forgets our debt of gratitude to heroes
like our troops fighting in Iraq, our Civil Defense Authorities, and
to the great people on United Airlines Flight 93, who made an
ultimate choice in sacrificing their own lives in an attempt to
spare many others from a similar fate.

Never forget.

Following are the most recent tributes to Nicole Miller, submitted
by a number of people who have not forgotten the heroic acts
of the Passengers of UA Flight 93.

 

DEDICATED TO THE PERSON WHO WAVED THE BATH TOWEL FROM THE TOP FLOOR OF THE NORTH TOWER ON SEPTEMBER 11TH 2001.

NOT BEING AMERICAN, I CAN GIVE AN OBJECTIVE POINT OF VIEW.
GIVE ME YOUR TIRED AND WEARY FROM THE ELLIS ISLAND QUEUE.
DRIVING IN FROM KENNEDY, THOSE EARLY IMMIGRANTS CROWD THE INTERSTATE.
AT CALVARY AND MOUNT ZION, THEY HAVE CREATED REALITY FROM DREAMS, AND YOUR AT ITS GATE.
GIVE THEM LIBERTY, THE TYPE THAT TYRANNY CONFOUNDS.
WHERE PEOPLE ARE FREE WONDERFUL ENERGY ABOUNDS.
THEIR LEGACY TO US ARE THE BUILDINGS THAT STAND.
ON THE ISLAND OF THE HILLS SO PROUD, SO GRAND.
THE THING THAT GRAPHICALLY ILLUSTRATES THIS SO WELL, SO FINE.
IS THAT MAN MADE GRAPHIC EQUALISER , THE MANHATTAN SKYLINE.
TWO HIGH PEAKS ARE MISSING WHERE SYMBOLS ARE NORMALLY FOUND.
WILL THE HARMONY BE BROKEN, THE LOSS SO PROFOUND.
IN ITS SPIRITUAL HOME MR LENNONS IMAGINATION STANDS PROUD AND TALL.
FOR NEW YORKS A RACIAL LIQUIDIZER, TEACHES TOLERANCE FOR ALL.
MANY YEARS FROM NOW WHAT WILL 9-11 MEAN, A DATE OF COURSE, A NUMBER PERHAPS.
STILL CONNECTING TO THOSE GUYS WEARING NYC DEPARTMENT BASEBALL CAPS.
THE REST OF THE WORLD SINGS A CHORUS FROM THAT OLD SINATRA SONG.
ITS UP TO YOU NEW YORK NEW YORK, WE KNOW IT WONT BE LONG.
YOUR TEARS WILL DRY FOR THOSE HEARTS SO BRAVE AND TRUE.
THATS WHY THE REST OF THE WORLD LOVES THE RED WHITE AND BLUE.
FINALLY, BACK IN ENGLAND THE YANKEES ARE NOT JUST A BASEBALL TEAM, NOT JUST NEW YORK CITY..... BUT THE DEFINITIVE WORD TO DESCRIBE THE AMERICAN NATION. IM HERE TODAY, ONE MAN TO PAY HOMAGE TO YOUR UNFORGOTTEN PAST WITH UNCONDITIONAL SUPPORT FOR YOUR DREAMS AND ASPIRATIONS IN THE WORLD SERIES OF EVENTS, BOTH IN AND OUTSIDE BASEBALL TO SAY ..........GO YANKEES !!!!.

 

I'm a 23 year old girl from Holland an I just read every word of the tribute
to Nicole,
so catching and so beautiful.
What a loss to this world!
Ofcourse the 11th of September gave me a big shock, but it never felt so
close and so real as now I've seen your memory of Nicole.
I never knew her, but reading those beautiful words about her makes me feel
like I did know her.
And that brings along a deep feeling of sadness.
Now I will never forget her.
Ik hope that the memory of Nicole keeps you going!

Much love from Holland
Frouke

 

 

There are no words that can really explain the emotions that I feel right now. So therefore, I will just say this- I hope that I have learned to live my day as it may be my last- sometimes it is hard not to take life for granted....... but when I arrived upon this memorial for Nicole- it brought me back to reality- I have a 3 yr old son and I'm only 22yrs and my husband is 24- it is most important to me to let them know everyday, 10,20,1,000,000,000 times a day how much they mean to me. Good people are taken from us, I know as a mom we like to use that famous quote "life's not fair"-- and I don't think I will be using it anymore- b/c in the means of it all- it isn't fair---and there is no book to help you on just how to deal with that- you take it how it comes, and it hurts.
Love is everything!!!!!

 

Just a quick note to say, I am so very sorry you lost a wonder, daughter, sister, and friend.
May love, comfort and peace be with you all.

Thank you so much for sharing your daughter's and sister's memory with me.


Soon we will all live in a wonderful peaceful world, just keep praying for God's Kingdom to come on earth as it is in Heaven!! (Matthew 6:9,10)
Paradise earth is to be restored by God's Kingdom. ( Rev. 21:3-5)

Also the earth will soon be filled with only those who are peaceful and transformed into being perfect like he intended mankind to be since the beginning. (Psalms 72:7) and the wicked will be destroyed who have no love and are not peaceable. . . . . ( 2 Th 1:6-9)

I, cry with you, for your daughter and sister, find comfort in this promise found in John 5:28,29.


Again, may love & peace be with you all,

Brenda in Texas.

 

Dear Nicole,

I simply wish your family and friends would have had one more day with you.

You look so sweet and beautiful. I am sure you are being missed by so many people.

Just know that a lot of people think about you. I know I do and I’ll keep on doing that.

Rest in peace, Nicole.

Saskia – The Netherlands

 

Three years later...

Three years have passed since the world changed. Three years since the day which will remain clear in many of our minds. The day which was won at the last second by Nicole Miller and her fellow passengers of Flight 93. The 9/11 Comission Report states that the plane was crashed as a last-minute attempt to stop the passengers from overtaking the terrorist pilots. Inside of about 20 seconds, the passengers would have broken through to the cockpit.

Even though the terrorists dropped the plane, the passengers won the battle. The ball was in their court. They knew the tally going in to play their quarter. They won, despite the crash. That plane was full of heroes, people who wouldn't take no for an answer, and probably(from what I've read of them) never took any garbage from anyone. They weren't about to start doing either on that morning, either.

The world paid a heavy price that September morning, but it wasn't a total loss in some ways. People reassessed their values and goals as a result of the magnitude of what happened. The greatest lesson learned, though, was through the actions of the NYFD and Nicole Miller and co. on Flight 93. They all looked the devil right in the eyes...and made him blink. They made his minions run in panic like the scared little chickens they are.

The 1990s were a time of questioning of just what the measure of a true hero was/is. Well, the definition of a hero was defined on 9/11, three years ago. Not a day, or somtimes second, goes by when I don't think about that morning. As I said before in my first posts so long ago, I felt something wasn't quite right in the air during the summer before the attacks. I knew that until then there had been no real war, and that it felt like something might be coming over the horizon...

I still feel for all those who passed on that morning, and for those who knew/loved them, including Nicole and her family. I've worked for about two years on a task which at times seemed impossible, but I finally achieved the half-way point recently. I think it should be smooth sailing to the end-goal now. I didn't let it get me down and give up; that's not my style. (Some people are truly shocked by my high level of persistance.) Nor was that the style and message of Flight 93. At certain times, I honestly feel that someone or multiple someones are watching out for/over me. And during some of these times, I get a partial sense that one of them might be Nicole. She's never been far from my thoughts.

I don't know if Bin Laden will ever be caught; I don't feel that's the most important thing. The important thing is that we've so far successfully sent his goons the right message. We're not them. We don't sneak around, thinking nobody will notice us until the last minute. We get in there and take out the trash. They thought we were weak, stupid. After their sneak attack, they quickly realized how truly WRONG they were. The terrorists at the controls must have been petrified by the fact their so-called victims were more than willing to take out the trash that was in the cockpit of the plane. The passengers didn't even consider death as an option.

According to Todd Beamer's phone call, he said he was going out on faith. I can't help but feel that Nicole and many others were there with him, recitng that Psalm. I also feel that since the battle that morning was won by Freedom, that it could be a strong indication of the ultimate outcome of this war.

The terrorist's attack was designed to break us, and cripple us to the core. It did...but only for a time. We needed time, to regroup, assess our losses. But once we successfully began that, it was time to learn from our loss, and strike back, as one.

People are vocally divided by the decisions made to sent troups to known countries to fight terrorisits, but one thing remains clear: Flight 93 was headed for the White House. If the passengers had not stopped them, there would have been no central command base to coordinate our counteroffensive. Say what you will about the Presiden't desicions; this is not the web site or occassion to get into debates. I'm just saying that Nicole and the others on Flight 93, through their actions, made it possible for our Commander In Chief's command base to remain secured. They gave us our chance to form a plan to strike back.

I believe there is a God, and an afterlife. I also feel that Nicole and those many others who passed on that morning and in times past are still watching over us. We owe Nicole and the others not only our freedom, but our lives as well.

Rest In Peace, Crew and Passengers of Flight 93. You're true heroes.

-Jimmy Collins
scific1258@aol.com

 

I Remember

I taught fourth grade at Allen School in San Jose. Nicole Miller sat near the back of class and was very quiet until she didn't understand an assignment. A bright hummingbird with huge glasses kept quietly attacking my desk. She brought bright, specific questions to make sure she was doing it right. She would nod and jump back to her desk. Nicole never hesitated to ask. I believe she was brighter than she gave herself credit for at the time.

It took a while to get to know Nicole. I learned she was highly valued as an athlete. Boys fought for her to be on a team. She was modest about her skills. Nicole was unique. Her hair was piled in cute styles, she carried herself with confidence and seriousness. I knew she often worried. Her kind and gentle personality was a gift to our classroom.

Yes, I could image Nicole being heroic. She was directed and strong. And good. And courageous. I am honored to have known her. Nicole is surely still with me.

Sheila Paquette Acojido

 

It is very hard to believe that it has been three years since that awful day. I have been coming to pay respect to you Nicole for a couple of years now. I have not forgotten what happened to you and the other victims of that day. You are and will be in my thoughts.
God bless you Nicole.

 

As we come closer to the anniversary of 9/11 - there are many programs
airing to commemorate the tragic event. Every single time I see something
about 9/11 - I am still overcome with a feeling of disbelief.

I came across the memorial for your daughter accidentally and was profoundly
touched by the beauty of her, all that was written about her and the loss
you suffer with her absence from your life. I am so sorry for the sorrow
you endure.

I don't have words of comfort or explanation - I don't believe there are
any. But thank you for sharing this lovely woman with us. I also have two
daughters and they are treasures, just as your Nicole was and still is to
you.

Sincerely,
Joni Jobs

 

Tomorrow is the third anniversary of the September 11th terrorist attacks and I am thinking of Nicole and all who lost their lives on that tragic day in American history.

I am proud of Nicole and of the other Flight 93 passengers whose bravery and courage we will never forget.

Shannon Sequeira
Morgan Hill, CA

I never knew Nicole, but I lost my girlfriend on 9/11. I have been through 3 years of pain & when I came across this site tonight I burst into tears. Nicole was beautiful & from the tributes I've read she seems to be a lot like my girlfriend Monica who was lost that day. I know how hard it is to carry on but you must be strong, she lives through everyone who she touched & it looks like that's a lot of people. Nicole will be in my heart & prayers.

You lose someone you gain an angel.....

 

About a year or so ago I wrote to Nicole's mother and told her what a great job she did on the website, so good in fact that I keep it in my favorite places and send it to other people.

I guess that I prove that not only did Nicole touch the hearts of people she knew but even the hearts of people she never knew.

I always tell my wife and kids that after I am gone I will be watching over them, and I'm sure that Nicole is watching over her family.

Nicole & her family will be in my prayers.
Take care.
Mike

 

I did not know Nicole, but I wish to say that my prayers and thoughts are with you, yours, and all of those on September 11.

-Ryan in Orange, Virginia

 

I didn't know you but gain strength from your beautiful spirit that clearly shows through your family. Best wishes for Nicole's family and friends.

Wayne

 

Today is the third anniversary of September 11th. Your memorial of Nicole has touched my heart. I look at the pictures of her and feel like crying because she seems so full of life. Her picture (the one with the blue portrait background) looks like she would be one of the girls at my school always laughing and cheerful. I live a half hour away from NYC and I'm am sorry for your loss. I never knew her but I will remember her always.

Gabriele 13, NY

 

I just wanted to take a minute and email you, the family of Nicole
Miller. I never personally knew Nicole, but I feel she has touched my
heart somehow.

I remember looking through the names and faces of the victims that
horrible week, and reading about many of them; tiny glimpses into
their lives, trying to get a feel for WHO they were, so that they
weren't just names that I heard on the news. Then I came across
Nicole. She was about my age, and so beautiful and looked so happy.
She had a huge smile and incredible brown eyes. I don't know too much
about her, but when I think of what was lost that awful day, I think
of Nicole.

Perhaps I feel a kinship because she is close to my age. She was
about a year and a week older than me (my birthday is March 10, 1981),
or maybe her personality was so amazing that it literally comes though
in the photographs. It almost seems that way. Her eyes and smile
seem to draw you in, in such a powerful way. She looks like the kind
of person that would be anyone's friend.

It may sound strange, but thinking of Nicole makes me re-evaluate my
life at times. She'd be 24 now and I am 23. I wonder what she would
be doing now, just as I wonder what I should be doing... what should I
do with these days that I have, and what would Nicole tell me to do?
What advice would she give?

Anyways, I'm sorry. I don't want to seem weird or anything, but I
just wanted to contact you through the address that was on her tribute
site. I thought of your Nicole today, and I said a prayer for you,
her family. I pray that God has helped to mend your hearts in these
three years. There is nothing that will ever replace Nicole, nor
should there be, but I do pray that God's hand is on your family,
providing comfort in ways only He can-- with a peace that passes all
understanding.

Thank you for sharing Nicole's life and memory with the world through
her website.

God Bless,
Sondra L. Meyers
Bowling Green, Ohio

 

This is for the family and memory of Nicole Miller. My daughter went to Pioneer with her, and they were on swim team together. Each and every September 11, I say a special prayer for this beautiful girl. The world would have been a better place with her in it.
God must have had a special calling when her took her home.

God Bless.
Kathy Small

 

I cried the whole time I was reading the site you created.
It is such a caring site.
Nicole has such a beautiful face and by the comments written a beautiful
personality.
Please take care.
Love Michelle.

 

I KNOW THAT NICOLE WAS A GOOD FRIEND OF MY SISTER SONDRA. AND SHE THINKS OF YOU EVERYDAY AND CRIES. YOU ARE THE FIRST PERSON I HAVE HEARD MY SISTER TALK SO HIGHLY OF AND FOR THAT I KNOW THAT YOU ARE SOMETHING SPECIAL. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE AT PEACE NOW, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. NOT EVEN BY ME A TOTAL STRANGER. I'M SO LOST FOR WORDS. PLEASE KNOW THAT MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS. AND I KNOW THAT YOU ARE UP THERE LOOKING DOWN, HELPING WITH THE GRIEVING PROCESS OF EVERYONE. GOD BLESS YOU! REST IN PEACE NICOLE.


KORENA TINNIN

 

Dear Miller Family:

I had occasion to ride through Bidwell Park in Chico
this morning (9/13/04) on my bicycle and came across
the park bench dedicated to your daughter's memory. I
had stopped there before to read the dedication
plaque, but today there were fresh flowers, a poem,
and other commemorative things there. Though
remembrances are always painful, and there are no
magic words that I can say to bring her back to you,
just allow the peace of God to envelop your souls and
give you rest . . . rest that she now enjoys and we
covet. May His Spirit heal all your wounds.

R. Paul Shelton

 

It’s unbelievable that it’s been 3 years since 9/11. So much change and emotion has occurred. Nicole, you will never be forgotten. God amazes me! The incident on 9/11 was so tragic and devastating, and I’ll never understand why it happened. But I do know that God hand picked each one of the victims. Our lives have been changed forever…We will never be the same. I am blow away by the number of people that Nicole has touched without even knowing them. She definitely reflects a glimpse of heaven. I knew Nicole, but I wasn’t really close to her. But over the last few years I’ve gotten to be close with her mom and her best friend…and I am so grateful. I know that my life has changed forever. I don’t look at anything the same anymore. I stopped by your grave today and dropped off some flowers. They are from me and Lisa. She wishes she could be here today to say hello in person. You’re much thought of and will never be forgotten. I’m always praying for your family!!!

Tiffany